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TIME 12. 49pM / 1:49 AM Saturday 20
/ 6/ 2009
NAME: OGBONNA AZUBUIKE
TITLE " TURN 2 REAL
I woke up one morning over thinking the subject / course to read in the university and was confused. I met one man whose name was unknown, I asked him, will I read mathematics? H- mmm " the man prove to me beyond QED that “one plus one” equals ‘One” ( 1+ 1= 1) by saying he that who sees him has seen his father. Again he prove in a divine arithmetic progression that: “One plus One in Marriage is One” (1+ 1= 1)
He told me in Economics that he disapproved that Law of diminishing return by feeding five thousand men (5000 men) with two fishes and five loaves of bread(5 loaves of bread). I ask him who are you, he hummed " mmmm but referred me to Bible John chapter six from verse one to thirteen"( John 6; 1-13). At the end I observed that God is present in his presence, to present, present to those present in his presence. Now l am redeemed not to be reduce but redeemed to be raised for l have no fear to fear anymore.
BROKENNESS OF CHARACTER
The word that best describes brokenness is humility. One has to humble oneself and to the things of God. Brokenness molds our character to confirm to the character of God; ability to yield the heart and the soul to the spirit of God it’s the treasure key to true revival power and intimacy with God.
Summarily, its absolute surrender to.-
• Willingness to function within the area where God has called.
• Willingness to fulfill God’s purpose in your life
• Willingness to fulfill God’ design in your marriage family, society, and church.
• Willingness to submit to the authority God has place over you
• Yielding yourself to the will and control of God
• Dying to your opinion, preference, taste, will, work approval of man and to self.
In conclusion: All the gift of God in ones life without brokenness every potential in that person is useless.
TOMORROW
There are many things we can count on: The sun rises in the east and sets in the west; Fire burns; water is wet. Night follows day and the seasons come and go in their established order. But you cannot count on tomorrow. Today is the tomorrow that you talked about yesterday! Yesterday you spoke of the thing you would do “tomorrow”. Yet, this is the tomorrow you talked of yesterday, and today you are still saying ‘Tomorrow” All the yesterday are swallowed up in the eternity behind us- they are gone forever- and tomorrow is not yours: ONLY TODAY is yours yet in the true sense of the word, not All of this day is yours. There are twenty four hours in a day and you can go out into eternity at any moment of any hour of the twenty four hours. There are sixty minutes in an hour, sixty seconds in a minute and in a matter of seconds you can leave this world and stand before God, to hear Him say, “Enter thou into the joys of the Lord” OR “depart into everlasting fire”
HAVE YOU SIGNED UP?
That is, have you signed a contract with the devil that you will never be saved? Have you signed an agreement in which you faithfully and solemnly promised Satan that you would spend eternity in hell? Did you solemnly promise never to be saved?.
The devil has never asked any person to sign such an agreement. He will never ask a sinner to sign a contract never to be saved, or to promise to spend eternity in hell. Satan is too wise, too shrewd, and too cunning to do such a thing. He is a deceiver but he is not fool. He is the destroyer, but he is not stupid. Satan is subtle and extremely wise. He can appear in many forms but he most frequently appears as “an Angel of light (II Corinthians 11:14).
YOU CANNOT DENY……………
No type, class and categories of human being that can say because of its potentials that he / her cannot worship God in truth and spirit such like Daniel in the bible was a governor of four states (four province) still he worships God. Because you are the Federal Government Minister: Joseph the son of Jacob was the Minister for Agriculture and Natural resources in the land of Egypt still he worships and fear God to the core.
• Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were Ambassador in the country of Babylon or Babylonian Empire. Still they worship God.
• Most beautiful girl; Mary Magdalene was a harlot and repented & worships God.
• Learned man: Saul who was changed to Paul was a lawyer. Still he worships God.
Therefore nothing can deny us not to worship Almighty God, Yahweh, Jehovah, Allah as religion may call.
MY HOME CALLED…
Is a home of no regret, a home without pains, sorrow and death, a home of eternity with Lord Jesus. There is no political party, or any party campaign as to attend who will rule. Only the king of kings, Lord of Lords, the lion of tribe of Judah. The man who is at the right hand of God, whose power & majesty is given to him to judge, condemned and to set free. The man who has the book of life in his hand. A place of no war, no bit me I bit you, and where struggling to make wealth does not exist. A home of peace & happiness from ever to evermore A-men.
If heaven is like this - God is a generating-generator that will generate his generation, “that is the saints”.
Does this mean I have to give up my Dope?
Basil a college student was hooked on hard dope. When he was discovered by college authorities, they thought he might die
Basil was sent to a hospital. Fortunate he survived and a week later was discharged and sent back to college. John called his parents who were Christians. He told them what had happened. Of course, they were heartbroken I didn’t know the family at the time.
Basil told his “Mum and Dad, I have a real problem and I don’t know what to do. I am scared to think what might happen to me. I heard a fellow by the name of Ogbonna
Who speak up north some time back. I believe that he could help me with my dope problem.”
Basil’s parents made the long trip to the college and brought Basil to my house on a Sunday afternoon. Although I had not been notified, God is good and is still performing miracles. God had me home that Sunday afternoon for a few hours. As I invited the three in, Basil introduced himself. “Ogbonna, I believe you can help me with my problem.” “Basil,” l answered, “let us go down to my basement recreation room. We will leave your folks up here to talk with my wife. Downstairs, I said to him, “Basil, I can’t really help you with your dope problem, but Jesus can. With your permission I would like to tell you about Jesus Christ, Basil was willing and about thirty minutes later, Basil accepted Jesus. “Ogbonna, does this mean I have to give up my dope God is strong. Basil, as children of God we can rely upon the lord’s strength. Basil accepted Jesus and stop doping.
Why doesn’t everybody Accept Jesus?
I was speaking to a group of teenage boys and girls at a Government college school, who had agreed to come to school one hour early to hear me speak. The group consisted of about twenty five teenagers, several coaches, and the principal. The principal used to be one of my high school coaches.
After I closed the message, I mentioned to the principal, “kpokirikpo, if any of their students wish to talk to me separately, or in small groups, could I use some office?” I will excuse them to get into class when they leave the office.” The principal agreed. Ten students came to see. As I was talking to the last four, Onyenma, the principal son walked in. “Ogbonna, I don’t know why I came in,” he said. “I really don’t understand why I came to talk with you. I am not really one small bit interested in spiritual things.” “Well, Onyema, why don’t you sit down with Isaac and Ethel. You know them, so you ought to feel at home. Besides, you can leave any time you want to. You also can turn me off anytime you want to.” Onyema sat down and within thirty minutes all the three has accepted Jesus as their personal saviour. Onyema was amazed. Ogbonna is that what it takes to join the family of God? “According to these scriptures, Onyema, that is the only way we can come into the kingdom of God. God keeps it simple, so I and others can understand it. Onyema wanted to say something. Then I have a question for you Ogbonna; why doesn’t everyone accept Jesus?” “that is my question also, Onyema. I don’t really have the answer to that one
I Really Don’t want to hear it.
Raymond was an ex- Civil servant man, and an alcoholic. He couldn’t keep a job because of his drinking. He spent his income or any money gotten for alcohol, and also much of his wife’s money. Naturally, the family, including three beautiful children, was very much in debt and struggling financially as well as in many other ways. Raymond‘s wife, Caroline, was a Christians but he was not in the least interested.
Caroline always wanted me to over and talk with him. I insisted that Raymond invite me over himself. One day Caroline told me that Raymond had consented and had asked me to come over. I drove over to their house. After shaking hands with Raymond, I asked him if it was alright to talk with him about the Bible and Jesus. He nodded his agreement. I only talked about three minutes. I noticed that he was not really interested. “Ray, you really are not interested in this, are you?” “Not really,” he answered. “I just thought it would please the wife.”
‘ I am very sorry that I came, Raymond, and I am leaving right now it is not right for me to force Jesus on to you. I apologize for the three minutes I talked to you and I asked your forgiveness” I then left. After Raymond finish reading a Bible tract given to him. He wrote to me indicating that he was now really searching for Jesus. Some weeks later, Raymond and his wife came to house fellow or Bible study in my house. Raymond sat quietly through the entire study.
Just before I was going to close in prayer, Raymond asked me if he could say something. He got up and gives a testimony those two months ago; you wouldn’t have caught me, or seen me in this meeting. I have been an alcoholic for years. Each day I drink from morning till late at night. I always used money needed in my family for alcohol. I have been mean and vicious. I really had nothing to live for except alcohol “then after Reading Bible tract, I begin to read bible and praying. About three week ago I woke up in the morning, and I had no desire for alcohol again. I had an incredible feeling come over my entire being. I felt real peace for the first time. Now I know I had something to live for. I thank God for a praying wife and children. I am not a christain yet but I have come a long ways in thirty days”
“Brother Raymond I believe you are already a Christian.
I believe the holy spirit entered your being and took the taste of alcohol away from you .you have something good going for you if you will just stay on his program for your life.
Brother Raymond has stayed on the program. What a transformation in life and in his family’. Now he has an excellent Job and a beautiful relationship with his family and his God. He is now worshiping and serving the lord as president of the society for foster children. I thank God for a prayer wife like caroline who never give up. Before I don’t want to hear about God but alcohol but today I thank God for my life said Raymond “former drunker”.
Discipline:
Before we get close to God we must discipline ourselves to grow spiritually. It takes discipline to do something necessary to come nearer to God. It takes discipline to understand bible pray daily, be a Christian, and to serve Jesus. It takes discipline to be among other Christian. It seems fun to skip that Christian meeting and go to the football game, but our real happiness depend on fellowship of Christian to give us strength, and assurance for a really happy way of life.
It takes discipline to serve Jesus when he calls us or leads us to serve him. I am tired and weary but fatigue is mainly of the mind, and the joy of serving Jesus will completely rest in us.
When we finished all our time doing one thing or the other, still God is able and give us time to recover. Time without number I have reached this point and God has downed me and my plane with bad weather for two days or more, Still came back home and rest. Its God’s doing. Our Almighty God knows and understand all our needs through Christ Jesus.
Commitment:
How can God answer all our prayers? How can all bad things we committed turn out good?
How all the promises of God are fulfilled in our lives?
I strongly believe that all of the above can be fulfilled in all of the believers’ lives.
It can happen to each of us as we simply covenant with our lord Jesus to make and keep a deep commitment to continual strive to put God first in our live at all times.
I am married to a beautiful and wonderful woman since 14 years ago. If I add four other women ahead of my wife in our marriage it will not give me satisfactory marriage relationship. Even if I add one woman ahead of her, it will not be a good marriage.
The best and only way to have satisfactory marriage relationship with my wife is by putting her as a top woman in my life and for her to put me as the top man in her life with these we have a wonderful marriage relationship.
But what about our relationship with God? If we put four other things in our lives ahead of God.
Must we have a successful relationship with him?
The answer is simply and easy. If my wife won’t tolerate anything but being first in my life, my God won’t either. Therefore, if I want a blessing, happy, fruitful life. I need to put my God first. Therefore all readers or visitors always put God first in your life, great things will happen in your life and it shall be well with your soul.
SWEET SEXY BRINGS A HAPPY MARRIAGE
In the beginning God created Adam (Man) and said Adam cannot stay alone. God knows that sexy is important to man. He gives him a female called Eve in the Eden. Genesis 1:28, that they be fruitful and be multiply and replenish the earth which means sweet marriage. Sweet marriage is based on genuine heart agreement of the couple and a genuine love making is an essential to a happy marriage where the woman will obey her man to live as wife.
Sexing is the sweetest exercise you can have so far
- It reduces fat in your body. Some malaria and oily body will be dry up and brings happiness.
- It’s the best game time to reconcile if there are any scores to settle, time for getting favour from both parties.
- Also time to exchange and buy good ideas
A man that has big and long penis should make sure he is healthy by not smoking or drink Indian helm, alcohol, eat enough fruits and water. Any man who wants to satisfy his girl with sex must keep his sexual desires under control whether married or unmarried should observe the following:
1. Get exercise in the open air daily for waste to go out from the testics and air to revolve the sperm.
2. Eat plenty of fresh green foods, avoid meat. This makes the sperm to be alive and active because a sweet sexy requires using full sperm strength into the woman.
3. Avoid use of alcoholic drinks, or any hard drug, the strongest indictment against alcohol is that it excites will power. Here alcohol kills the sperm strength in the testics.
4. Drink plenty of water on or before sexing exercise so that its elimination will be aided.
5. Bathe frequently: Sexual desire may be repressed by a cold bath.
6. A man’s sexual Immune comes from his heart before penis rises.
Therefore, train the mind to think pure thoughts by reading only good books, news and indulging only in uplifting good sex conversation.
If any man obeys all these sex sequence, you are going to satisfy your partner even if you are on your tenth to eleventh round, she will be satisfy and happy to carry another extra round to make it Eight to nine round per night or day depends when it calls. But both long and short, big and small penis can pregnant a woman whence the spermatozoa is alive. But for satisfaction go for long and big penis.
Woman, you have to treat your man very well with sexy. Any time, your man need sexual healing do not refuse, for that is the secret in loving. If you do there are many girls somewhere there to replace you. Woman or girl who want to make love and see the taste of sexy should try a slim man with long penis, so that you can release ova to your satisfaction or an average fat man with big penis. This always move your clitoris to shade, shock and release sexy saint which every man need from a woman.
Any woman who need sexual satisfaction should not be on her monthly menstruation or three days before, because the mucus collected with the vagina cause low erection of penis and the hungry man cannot go two or three rounds.
A sweet sexy woman should be intelligent with reference to the function and care of her reproductive organs. She should be in a proper way to know about sexual matters
1. To keep herself clean by frequent bathing if any woman / girl does not bath, might experience little heat which makes itching and rubbing her parts, this make some girls to masturbate which has no satisfaction and is a sin because it reduces a life span.
2. The woman should be allow to sleep six hours after overnight or day sexy, so that both of them will be strong and satisfy on the next match.
Girls should be aware of this. Any man taking you to the beer parlour to drink beer; he takes and gives you, look very well, the man in question want to use you as a waste basket, if he is your proposal ---------- quote me whether you marry him or not.
falling in love:
Mr. Adam fall in love immediately God gave him Eve. Now, let us see what is falling in love as Adam did. Or how falling in love looks like.
Falling in love is a strong natural attraction to the person of the other sex. Falling in love is crazy and very physical, Comfortable, and mental. When knees are down and temperature rises. You need to do nothing to fall in love and secondly, there’s nothing you can do to stop falling in love because its splashes of emotions, doubts, of that person you know little about. When we fall in love, nature waters all its power on us. Sometime it even goes against our senses when we realize that there is nothing good expect from these relationships because of the person is a wrong person but we still can do nothing about the feelings.
Sometimes we fall in love with the appearance of the person, how he or she speaks, walks, crack jokes and so on. The more the two persons have sexy, the more comfortable they get, and the less sharp, Bright and exciting the feeling gets. Some friends continue their relationship and get married while some dismissed. A minor can bring misunderstanding among them or misplacement of one thing or the other could be an end of that falling in love, but it may be the beginning of something more serious like; I am ready to marry you.
Some people fall in love more often than others while some deceive by short time falling in love when they have permanent partner they love. This destroys or dismisses relationship. Some may fall in love with two people at the same time but it should be a different place so that One cannot choose which type is better but can neither afford to take both. We are not wrong if and the only if we call falling in love a mental and physical brief illness, some say falling in love is destructive, selfish, possessive, blind and others give it many unpleasant definitions. But it is different from any other illness. In one important way it can be very pleasant. People this time often taking it as antidepressants and drugs because it makes them feel better and high. Falling in love is the most natural and the least harmless kind of doping. Yes it can hurt and it does but gives life some spirit of freshness and youthfulness while it lasts.
Are you in love?
Having exercise falling in love, can you ask yourselves ‘am I in love?”. You are mostly not yet in love; you are just about falling in love. When you have fallen in love you don’t have any question to ask. The feeling is too obvious not to leave any room for doubts. So it’s more reasonable to count the consequences of it than to look for the signs. When you are in love, you cannot stop thinking of your object of love. He or she stays on your mind when you are busy all the day or relaxing in the evening after work. The vision of your object of love haunts your mind like a ghost and it never works when you wanted to stop thinking about him or her you remember all the time spent together, every single word, gesture and look Because of the love you sleep like a baby shine and think you are the best, you will be afraid to use the phone for a moment because you sure that will be the moment he/she will be calling.
Nothing makes a person happier when he/she realizes that feeling is mutual, people in love look better, feel better and attract more attention from the people of the other sex than they are in their normal state. When you are in love, a single look of your object, anything that gives you the slightest hope and you are already somewhere above the sky. Falling in love with one that does not love you might be a tragedy and may seem to be the end of the world for you. Some people just cannot deal with the intense of emotion. People with unbalanced psyches can even have some suicidal ideas. But these cases are rare
How to keep friendships.
It is one thing to start a friendship its quite another to maintain it, to keep it, and to stay on it. Even strong friendship require watering or they shrivel up and blow away, friendship have to neglect everything that could be neglected without immediate ruin, and party, passed into the circle of intimate friends, whose feelings one never dreams of considering it is so easy to take good friends for granted. And in a sense, we should like a comfortable pair of hand gloves, old friends wear well. But friendship that suffer from being too busy and over familiarity cannot afford to be neglected too long they need renewal.
From a survey I carried out, the following are the qualities that most people cherish in friendship. These are the qualities you need to exhibit to enable you to develop nourish and keep friendship.
Loyality:
The quality that tops the list in my survey is what people appreciate most about their friends is loyalty - Support that you always give to someone because of your feelings of duty and love towards them.
For Example: An American Ex-president, Harry Truman’s Secretary of State, Dean Acheson, caused quite a stir when he visited his friend Alger hiss in prison. Hiss was a convicted traitor, and it was bad politics to have any association with him. But when prudent politicians condemned Acheson publicity, Acheson simply said, “A friend does not forsake a friend just because he is in jail.” That is called loyalty. The famous Maxim that” “a friend in need is a friend indeed” is not the entire story of loyalty. However a friend in triumph might be hard to get. Loyal friends are not only to lend a hand when you are in need; they applaud your successes and cheer you on without envy when you prosper.
forgiveness:
As good as loyalty is our friendships do not always have it. Get into forgiveness. Every friend you have, will often disappoint you. Believe it or not, it is sure. That does not mean that every offence of a friend requires forgiveness; some slights or minor offence need to be overlooked and forgotten just like how my wife “Joy” understood this: when she said ‘Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best lights’. Too many good relationship fade away because of some minor or imagined cancels it out. Some friends give up or fade away if their friend is not speedy enough in returning the phone call or if they are not included in a social party or event. They will set high standards for the relationship that they are being disappointed. They will not forgive every little things, every minor lapse becomes a betrayal. Nevertheless, forgiveness has two "way street. Unless you are Holy Ghost or saint, you are bound to offend- knowingly or unknowingly every friend deeply at least once in the course of time, and if the relationship survives it will be because your friend forgives. They friends you have to keep are the friends that forgive mostly. And the essence of true friendship knows what to overlook and how to forgive.
Honesty:
Honesty is a pre-requisite or good life to the true friends’ relationship. “A genuine friendship cannot exist if there is always misunderstanding says: “Joy my wife”, does this require brutal honesty? Not exactly, it requires honesty that is carefully dealt in the context of respect and obedient. In the absence of respect you see honestly is a lethal weapon. That is why Joy my wife put add, “Remove respect from friendship and you have taken away the most splendid Ornament it possesses” Honesty are not only expressed in words, it means being authentic.
True friends are not afraid to be honest and be themselves. If you are afraid of making enemies, you will never have true friends.
Dedication:
When did you and your best friend meet last? Dedication is the ability of two people to influence each other’s plans, thoughts, actions and emotions, to spend time and effort on friendship, to give up something important or valuable for sake of friendship. Think about it. When we were kids we spent a lot of time with friends. Contemporary life, `with its tight schedules and crowded appointments, however, has forced most friendships into something requiring a good deal of intention and pursuit to keep going. Dedication becomes the most salient in times of crisis. When a friend’s emotional bottoming out, that means canceling a date to provide a shoulder of support. That’s what friends are for. Therefore do not complain about having fair-weather friends if you are unwilling to be inconvenienced personal sacrifices, selfless devotion and commitment. These are the noble or best qualities dedication requires.
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